Being Happy - 1

This was something which I had written written 10 months back.. !!

Bangalore’s weather always makes you lazy, but still it is great in terms of just relaxing. Whereas today it’s different, Coming from a place which is extremely hot or cold i.e. Gujarat, Bangalore surely seems a paradise.

You might be thinking, why this particular information. It’s been long I wanted to write about happiness. And actually did not complete my wish. To be on the clear side, I am a bad writer, amateur rather a rookie at it. But writing isn’t a rocket science. You have to just start.

When you are going home, to meet your parents, family and other friends, you are too happy about it, and when you are leaving home and coming back to your base, where probably you are working or studying makes you feel sad. But still if you can find out something out of that, it will surely make you happy.

I surely felt sad, while leaving the house, seeing mom cry, seeing other members sad, but once back to Bangalore, something had to be found, to be happy as I cannot stay sad. It will spoil my time here. This is my second home, where I need to be committed towards my work and everything else. Hence being dull or sad or in bad mood surely wouldn’t allow you to focus on anything . Hence something has to be there, which keeps you away from the above mentioned words, but that’s in you to find out.
Weather, Food(Cooking and Eating), Friends, work (If am doing Good Nos.), this all attracts me, and hence somehow I found the way towards keeping a smile on the face. At home ( Native Place), you are not into any kind of activity. You are just idle. You are just visiting some relatives and they will be using the same old Dialogues like “KITNA BADA HOGAYA HAIN TU” and you feel like answering. “TERA KHAKE BADA HUA HUN”. Sometime few things at home too irritate you.

But then there are parents close friends and relatives who always entertain you, love you and keep you alive. There is food cooked by your mom and there is sweet and sour discussions regarding your future and so many other things that makes the moments sweeter.

And back here it’s your complete freedom, your own Job which keeps you busy to the core, makes you work like a bull. And the friends whom you have been with since last few years and forgot to mention “even the girl friend whom you have been dating since long” IF ANY ….

SO where is sadness… unhappiness.. Both the places you can find one enjoying.
While standing at BIAL, there was a bus in charge who was speaking to me He said, “ALLAH TAQUDEER LIKH KAIN BHEJ TA HAIN” then I replied “Likhi to hoti hain, lekin usko ghadne (to shape it) main mehnat karni padti hain”. And then he started giving his own explanation of the world and things around him and politics and don’t know what all Without me even speaking a word Even in this case he was completely entertaining, I had 20 minutes to spare and I don’t know how those minutes passed.
Probably the whole topic of Happiness comes out of practicality, if you are practical then I believe the happiness or in simple words, the good mood the energy will never leave you.

One more thing is the VILLIANs in the life. There are too many villains in life in different forms, for example. The Maid is a villain, if she is not coming on time, hence the whole house is undone. You end of cleaning an doing the dishes after a tiring day.

Sometimes your own boyfriend/girlfriend/wife becomes villain, the BOSS at your workplace and so many other people but still are you firing every single maid??? Are you breaking up every single time ?????Are you shifting the jobs every single time???? NO…

You might end up changing your workplace as you might need a change. You cannot keep changing wives, maids all the time. YES. Maids too are difficult to find.

The Attitude plays a major role in everything. If the same is positive, you will always be on the path which shall make you happy for sure. With Attitude, even remaining things can help i.e. Not having EGO, and extra self-respect(Which you don’t deserve).

Every time you cannot be so philosophical like this BLOG says or like some GURU and all, I have seen people who are true fans of SRI SRI and OSHO and so many other GURUs (No Offence Against Anyone) But those true fans are still practicing the same old corrupt strategies to solve things at times. They are not happy always even after doing so many kind of different breathing exercises. They are not tension free always, but still they always keep mentioning their Gurus and their strategies.


But still there are ways where even not being philosophical you can stay tension free, happy, in a good mood and energetic as well, you just need hold the right nerve (right way to look at things).

Now no one can teach anyone the same because me writing this still might be deadly sad at times “MIGHTBE” might be not.. !! But then .. Maximum time.. it is impossible to find me in a distress mood… or rather in a very bad state..
Towards End

How Happiness is defined.. – “State of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy”]
And

Tension - "a state of mental or emotional strain or suspense"

Both are just different states.. its something like the movie dialogues “ BETA TUMAHRE PASS DON RAASTE HAIN, TUMHE CHUN NA HAIN KAUNSA SAHI AUR KAUNSA GALAT. !!

And Yes - At times, Just let things happen. Don’t Think much, as by holding back you might repent later, however if anything wrongly done , you can surely override it by comparing it with the happiness that you achieved by doing the same thing.

Happiness

Happiness is something which a person always asks from his life, a person always wants to be happy with whatever she/he does. But not all are succesfull. Hence then Mood swings, Anger, Cunnigness, and other all bad things Start occuring
Is there any way that a person can always be happy??
I dont know a way, but yes a person can stay happy most of his time.
HOW?? I will surely post it soon...